5 Minutes Alone… With Terri Cheney
Terri Cheney is a writer and memoirist best known, at the moment, for her tremendous book, MANIC: A MEMOIR. I spoke with her last year in a podcast for PsychJourney and a Harper Collins interview with Terri was featured on our Afternoon Viewing segment recently. She’s graciously agreed to expand what we know of her in this AuthorScoop exclusive.
We’d like to thank her for taking the time to be part of our “5 Minutes Alone” interview series.
AuthorScoop: What was your very first publication credit?
Terri: I had a poem published in the local newspaper, The Daily Report, when I was about 10 years old. It was a very bad poem, I think, but my father was over the moon about it. Thirty-seven years lapsed before my next credit. In 2007, I submitted an essay about bipolar dating to the New York Times “Modern Love” column. I was astonished when it was accepted for publication, and especially pleased that it ran the week before my first book, Manic: A Memoir, was released in 2008. I’d made sure to mention my book in the essay, of course, so the publicity was terrific.
AuthorScoop: Tell us about your latest release.
Terri: Manic is about the disintegration of the careful facade I lived behind for most of my adult life. On the
outside, I looked very successful — I was an entertainment litigator, representing the likes of Michael Jackson, Quincy Jones, and motion picture studios. In truth, however, I struggled with a raging case of bipolar disorder. When I was manic, I was extremely productive, creative and energetic. But when depression inevitably hit, I fell apart. I couldn’t move, I couldn’t think. If I absolutely had to go into the office, I hid out under my desk. I told no one about my illness — not my friends, my family, my coworkers, no one.
Then in 1999, I was hospitalized after several suicide attempts. After a few weeks went by, I realized that none of the patients (including me) were getting better, because we simply couldn’t express what was going on inside us. There were clinical words, but they weren’t enough. So I decided to write my own story, from the inside out: to tell what bipolar disorder truly felt like, from the little hairs on my arms that quiver in mania, to the crushing weight of my body in depression. I wrote disjointed pieces in my writing groups for the next 7 years. By 2007, they finally coalesced into Manic.
After Manic’s surprising success, I received many emails, the most compelling of which were from parents of bipolar children, desperately seeking more info, answers, advice. They moved me so deeply that I decided my next book, which I am hard at work on now, will be a childhood memoir about growing up bipolar.
AuthorScoop: Aside from your own hard work, who else do you feel has contributed to your success?
Terri: My father was instrumental in instilling the love of words in me. When I was a little girl, he would read to me every morning (at ungodly early hours!). He always loved to hear what I had written, and having a captive, spellbound audience is a surefire way to keep writing. Also, I had a sixth grade teacher (thank you, Mrs. Martin, wherever you are) who set me free from classes to simply read and write whatever I liked. Her faith in my talent stayed with me the rest of my life.
AuthorScoop: At what time of day or night do you do your best writing?
Terri: If possible, I like to go out of the house to write, in the morning or early afternoon. I have a few favorite cafes around town, where I order a latte and a bite to eat, and they let me scribble away for hours. I write on an old-fashioned legal pad, then later transcribe what I’ve written into the computer. I feel this gives me two bites at the apple for editing.
AuthorScoop: Finally, what advice would you give to new or unpublished writers?
Terri: First, get in a writing group or class. My two weekly groups have been essential to me. They give me the discipline which I’m sure I would otherwise lack, to keep churning out pages week after week. Also, it’s invaluable for me to get feedback, to realize that what I’m writing is not so far from the universal human experience — that other people can relate to it. Second, don’t let the daunting prospects of publication get in the way of your writing. If you’re a true writer, you must write and you will write. Worry about agents and publishers and polished manuscripts later, after you’ve written the very best book that you can.


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February 26th, 2009 at 10:31 am
great interview, jamie.
thanks, terri.
February 26th, 2009 at 10:54 am
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March 4th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
Thank you, Terri Cheney for your book. I wanted some idea of what my daughter went through. My daughter was a beautiful very intellegent woman in the gifted and magnet programs all through school. She was an amazing athelete who played softball in high school and college. She played three instruments and she loved music. We found out she was bipolar in Sept. of 2004, while she was in the hospital being treated for menigitis. I knew she had become depressed and I kept urging her to get a therapist. She was put on prozac and several other drugs, for nocturnal seizures and we found her on Christmas Eve on the floor of her grandmother.s home. She was not breathing and she was rushed to the hospital and they restrarted her heart, but she was brain dead. I think this was a seizure in her sleep,but I found out after her death from her friends that she had been acting recklessly and they were worried about her. This has been the saddest thing I have ever had to deal with, and I have had lots of stuff to deal with. My son is in jail right now awaiting trial for killing his pregnant girlfriend. He also was highly intelligent, had a baseball scholarship to college and also was diagnosed with depression and he has attemped suicide three times. The first time he was 25 and ttook about 50 extra strenght Tylenol pills which caused him to go into liver failure and he was at County usc for 8 days and his liver came back. The doctors said he shuold hjave died. He was talked to by 2 psychiatrists and they said he was fine and didn’t need any follow up. I knew that wasn’t true. When he was on Zoloft he was doing well but as he always did he would stop taking the meds. he needed and he eventually became addicted to crsthal meth. which made him so paranoid and aggresive. There is a big hole in the system. I knew he was sick and yet there was northing I could do to force him to get help.I am raising his son and I want to make sure early on that if he has any mental health issues I can find out early and help him. My daughter also left behind a beautiful son who was three and a half when she died.I knew my daughter was moody and irritable alot and that she had trouble sleeping and that she was a shopaholic, but I did not know she was bipolar. and I believe your book does such a service explaining things to the public. I hope it will take some of the shame away from metal illness, because alot of the time not only does the person who is ill feel shame but so do their parents, who hear comments about how it must be the parents fault that their children are the way they are. I am in a group called GAP (Grandparents as Parents) and there are so many people in that group who have their gandchildren, because of drugs, mental illness, or death. The woman who founded this group, started this group when her sister committed suicide and left an 8 year old son who her parents raised.It is a wonderful support group for relative caregivers.This went on much longer than I’d planned but I want ypou to know how much I appreciate your book. I will read the book you are writing on your childhood. My grandson is very bright, but he has two parents nwith mental heath and addiction issues and he has already been found bto have ADHD and I know that one third of ADHD child are also bipolar, so I need to get him any help he needs. I look forward to your next book. I am so glad that you found something that worked for you. Carolyn La Brunda
January 18th, 2011 at 5:59 pm
[...] Terri Cheney, a wonderful author, who I consider also a friend, has launched Psychology Today’s newest feature, The Bipolar Lens. We met in discussion of her amazing, MANIC: A MEMOIR, and now, there’s more. Lucky for everyone. [...]